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1. The Background:
An out of body experience, or OBE, means that you’re experiencing the world from somewhere outside of your own body. Some people even report looking down on their own bodies as they float above them! Many OBEs happen accidentally during altered states of consciousness—for example, you might have one while you are falling asleep, having a near death experience, or are under the influence of certain drugs or medications. However, if you’re curious about having an OBE, there are some simple and safe techniques you can use to try to induce one. Keep an open mind and focus on exploration rather than results!
2. Set a firm, positive intention to have an OBE.
- You might try repeating a specific phrase or mantra to yourself, such as, “Tonight I will consciously leave my body and then return to it.”
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3. Designate a time and place for your OBE.
Pick a specific time to attempt an OBE and designate a comfortable and familiar “practice area” outside of your regular bed where the OBE will take place. Your designated area should be a quiet and comfortable spot where you can focus without distraction.
- For example, you might decide, “I will have an OBE tomorrow night after I go to bed.” Then, designate your couch as the space where you intend to have the OBE.
- It’s important to choose a spot other than your regular bed for this. Otherwise, you are more likely to simply fall asleep instead of entering an OBE state as you drift off!
- Look at this designated area as a space for personal exploration. You can even decorate the space ahead of time to make it feel more special. For example, you might hang crystals to create an otherworldly vibe.
4. Set your alarm for 4 hours after your bedtime.
Go to sleep in your regular bed at your usual bedtime. When you get ready for bed, set an alarm on your clock or phone to wake you up about 4 hours after you expect to fall asleep.
- You may need to adjust the time you choose for your alarm based on how long it takes you to fall asleep. The alarm should go off after you’ve had plenty of time to enter deep REM sleep.
5. Fall asleep in your regular bed while thinking about your intention.
As you’re drifting off, try to focus your attention entirely on your intention to have an OBE. This should be the last thing you consciously think of before you fall asleep.
- If you find your thoughts wandering, gently direct your focus back to your intention.
- You may find it helpful to repeat your chosen phrase or mantra affirming your intention.
6. Move to your “practice area” after the alarm goes off.
- Mute your phone and make sure you won’t be interrupted by pets or family members during your practice sessions.
7. Lie down while focusing on your intention to have an OBE.
Once you move to the designated spot, lie down on your back in a comfortable position and meditate. You can either rest with your arms at your sides or with your hands folded over your chest—whatever feels most relaxing to you. Silently repeat your intention to yourself.
- For example, you might say to yourself, “I am now leaving my body,” or “I will now have an OBE.”
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8. Imagine yourself leaving your body and exploring your home.
As you get comfortable, close your eyes and visualize yourself moving away from where you are lying down. Walk around different rooms in your home, looking at familiar things and examining specific objects. Stay calm and open yourself up to the experience.
- For example, you might see yourself going over to look at a painting on the wall or picking up a favourite knick knack from the shelf.
- Avoid thinking about or focusing on your physical body.
- As you get more comfortable with this type of visualization, you can try exploring beyond your home. For example, try walking down the street outside your home or even visualize yourself floating above your neighbourhood.
9. Keep focusing on having an OBE as you fall asleep again.
As you picture yourself exploring your home, keep repeating your intention to have an OBE. You should continue to consciously focus on these thoughts as you drift off to sleep.
- Ideally, you will enter an OBE state as you make the transition back into sleep. OBEs that occur as you are falling asleep may be a form of lucid dreaming. The goal is to stay conscious and able to control your experience as you re-enter REM sleep.
10. Be patient and record your experiences in a journal.
- Journaling will help you process and understand your experiences. You can also track your progress more easily!
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11. Lie down on your back in a comfortable position.
Find a quiet, comfortable spot where you can lie down without noise or distractions. You could lie down on a bed, your couch, a yoga mat, or even on the grass if you can find a cozy outdoor spot where you won’t be disturbed. Try to clear your mind.
- Let your hands rest on your chest or by your sides—whatever is comfortable for you.
12. Imagine yourself rising to float above the bed or floor.
- Try to focus entirely on the image and sensation of yourself floating. If your attention wanders, gently redirect it.
Tip: This technique is a type of visualization meditation. Look for basic guided visualization techniques to help you build the skills you need for this kind of OBE.
13. Hold that position until you no longer feel the bed or floor.
As you picture yourself floating there, try to feel it as well as visualize it. Imagine that there is only empty air beneath you. Keep focusing on these sensations until you can no longer feel whatever solid surface is under you.
- You may need to maintain your “floating” visualization for some time before you can achieve this loss of sensation. If you find yourself losing focus, take a few deep breaths and try again.
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14. Picture yourself moving around to explore the room.
Once you feel like you’re truly detached from the surface beneath you, imagine yourself slowly moving into an upright position. Visualize yourself walking or floating around the room, examining different objects and details of your surroundings. Try not to analyse what you’re seeing or doing–just let the experience unfold.
- You may be tempted to turn around and look at your own body, but don’t try it until you’ve gotten comfortable with the other stages of the process! Otherwise, you might disrupt the OBE—thinking about your physical body is likely to bring you back to it.
15. Practice this technique daily until you can comfortably do each step.
This visualization-based OBE technique can take a long time to master, so don’t be discouraged if you’re not able to do it successfully at first. Practice each stage of the process repeatedly over time until you can do it easily and comfortably.
- It may take a few months of practice to learn each stage of this technique. For example, you might need to focus at first on imagining yourself floating above your body, then reaching the point where you cannot feel the surface beneath you, and so on.
16. How do I know if I’m actually having an out of body experience?
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There’s no definite way to tell that you are “really” having an out of body experience—it’s based on your own feelings and perception of the event. Ideally, you should feel a strong sense of separation between your self and your physical body. You may or may not be able to see your own body during the OBE.
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You may find it easiest at first to explore your immediate environment, such as your house or the room you’re in. As you get better at inducing and controlling your OBEs, start trying to explore wider areas. Some people believe they can travel beyond the physical realm and explore other planes of existence during an OBE.
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18. Be patient. Consciously achieving an OBE takes practice.
- To end an OBE, simply concentrate on the idea of returning to your physical body. You will also likely return to your body on your own if you are disturbed by your body’s physical needs (such as hunger or a need to go to the bathroom) or an outside disruption, such as a loud noise.
- There are numerous techniques for inducing an OBE. If one method doesn’t work for you, do an online search to find information about other approaches you can try.
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